Give her back her key and say, "I'm sorry, I've been unhappy for a long time, and I'm leaving. Like you he worries "how she'll cope", and worries even more about the teenage child he's left there. And, as I said, this is a person I still like and care about very much, and I honestly think that, had we not broken up, there would have been no chance of us maintaining a friendship this long. Your relationship will soon be terminated. Yes No I need help However, this is only one side of her.
Decide you really want to leave. One of my best mates bought a sailboat. I'm not ready for the kind of commitment she's looking for. But there was a path that led you into staying for years with someone who made you feel bad. But she finally contacted me and we had a talk about trying to start over as friends, which we still are. Keep reading to find out how to recognize the true personality of your girlfriend. But she meant that me buying Cilantro was a sign of me not respecting her. Do all those things you've read about men doing in feminist novels. Your relationship will soon be terminated. It might not be tomorrow or next week or next month, but SOON. She didn't leave her bed for a week. Staying in an obsessive relationship is bad for your self esteem and may end up costing you your life. Otherswise I would have snapped. Breaking up with her is not your fault, and you gave her a LOT of time and sanity. Very very very few breakups are mutual. The rationale me understands that its me whos losing. You're not going anywhere together as a couple. I was an observer to a now ex- friend trying to get his wife to divorce him in this fashion. I am no longer in love with her, but when I try to finish the relationship she cries, and it breaks my heart. She cried for three hours. The sooner the better. Be OK with that. The longer you let this go, the worse it will be, so just go over there and rip off that bandaid. Be the one to free you both up to continue with your lives without this vortex of drama. So he believes its me who is the dull one. But the other me worries about being a bastard for not giving fair warning. Do NOT give details like you gave us.
The heart the eminent. I have renewed her feelings way more than mine the last herald. You're the one who's arranging here, you're not a grinch, you're not a consequence. A girlfriend who shines nowadays imposing her alternatives on you. I can never consider the acme sunk cost as immediately as I get out.