Please note that Private Lives and Sexual Healing are opened up to comments each Thursday at theguardian. I feel absolutely terrible about what I have done and I don't know what to do. You know what to do. Please consider especially how your words or the tone of your message could be perceived by someone in this situation, and be aware that comments which appear to be disruptive or disrespectful to the individual concerned will not appear. You can then sit and wait for someone else who isn't going out with your daughter to come along or take this as a sign that you need to try dating.
You know what to do. If it were a one-off, I think you should keep quiet, so that your daughter knows nothing about it. I am a mother myself now and understand her selfishness and betrayal even less. We regret that only letters that are published will be answered. You can then sit and wait for someone else who isn't going out with your daughter to come along or take this as a sign that you need to try dating. For advice from Pamela Stephenson Connolly on sexual matters, send us a brief description of your concerns. A, London Don't ever tell If you can't even trust your own mother not to betray you, who can you trust? You don't indicate whether this was a one-night stand or if you intend the relationship with this man to continue. I feel absolutely terrible about what I have done and I don't know what to do. Why not join some groups or classes, or even try online dating as a way to meet other people with similar interests? Not quite over your divorce? CE, via email If you would like to respond to this week's problem, please post your comment below. Your daughter will never forgive you and it is supremely unlikely that you will have a future with her ex-boyfriend. But if the relationship is serious, then obviously she must be told and realistically you should expect that she will be hurt and angry, at least for a while. Shortly after they separated he started texting me. JS, via email Cut off contact This man has broken your daughter's heart and made a fool of you. Ditch this man before your daughter finds out and decide on whether or not you're going to confess depending on whether you think he'll tell her at some point. HN, London Are you lonely? CS, Crewe Tell her the truth Theoretically, you have not done anything wrong. She was absolutely heartbroken. Please consider especially how your words or the tone of your message could be perceived by someone in this situation, and be aware that comments which appear to be disruptive or disrespectful to the individual concerned will not appear. We ended up meeting for a few casual drinks, and one thing led to another. Share via Email I'm a divorced woman in my early 40s and until recently I hadn't been with a man for more than a year. You say that you haven't been with a man for more than a year, which suggests that you feel lonely. When leaving a message on this page, please be sensitive to the fact that you are responding to a real person in the grip of a real-life dilemma, who wrote to Private Lives asking for help, and may well view your comments here. If she finds out what you have done, you will have some explaining to do anyway. During their time together, though, whenever he came to the house there was always some "chemistry" between me and him.
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